For some of us, the last time we were truly relaxed and unstressed was when we were children. Before work and family obligations, uncertainties about the future or worry about life in general began to eat away at our mental wellbeing, most of us were remarkably well adjusted.
Luckily, a little effort and the right attitude can bring us back to that childlike state of calm, as we manage the inevitable stress of daily living.
When it comes to dealing with everyday worries, how are you holding up?
Below you'll find a quick quiz to take a reading of your current stress levels and coping mechanisms. Once you have an idea of your current situation, it'll be easier to apply some of the stress-management techniques that follow.
Decide if your answer is either "yes" or "no" for each statement. It is crucial to be honst - after all, you are doing this for you, the results are private and will help you going forward.
Congratulations, you're keeping on top of the worries life throws your way and have stress management skills in place that keep you grounded and in control.
You probably have a good handle on daily stressors, but occasionally have a specific weak spot that causes worry and anxiety, for example work or relationships. The challenge for you will be to develop worry management skills in this particular area.
You could definitely benefit from taking stock of your current worry management techniques and finding ways to better support yourself. Whether you need to actively seek to reduce the sources of worry in your life, find better ways to cope with inevitable stress or both will depend on your unique life situation.
Worry has clearly gotten the better of you and is threatening to damage your quality of life and wellbeing. Stress at this level is typically not sustainable, and you may find that serious changes are in order.
In the quiz you've just completed, you might have noticed that some of the items were not about your external world alone and how stressful it may or may not be. Rather, the statements were concerned with how you interpreted the stressors in your life. Since anxiety and worry are a result of how changes in our environment are perceived, it makes sense to start there when trying to reduce the amount of stress and worry.
Well, no matter what your current situation, there are always ways to improve on your general wellbeing, specifically the way you tackle the worries of everyday life. Read on for how you can start to develop techniques to enhance your own resilience against worry.
Lyndsay T. Wilson (Nov 21, 2015). Stress Test – Part 2. Retrieved Oct 16, 2024 from Explorable.com: https://explorable.com/e/stress-test2
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